Love is not as simple as it looks and when it comes to marriage it is even more complex. We think that two people are in love and they get married and live happily ever after. But what I must tell you is that the concept of happily ever after is only suitable for movies. It has no real-life significance. The real problem starts thereafter. Initially, everything seems like a fairy tale but we have to keep a phrase in our mind "Dur ke dhol suhane". When marriage happens then complexity arises.
It doesn't mean that one should not marry but we have to maintain a trade-off between family and life-partner which is quite a difficult task. You can't satisfy your family and your wife at the same time. And what about your satisfaction and your dreams. You would have to make a compromise with that also.
Despite all these horrific things marriage is indeed a beautiful moment in a person's life and as depicted by famous saying "kuch paane ke liye kuch khona padta hai ". The same is the case of marriage. In marriage, we lose our "chain" and some parts of our dream. But what we get in return is worth it. You get a beautiful partner who stands by you in all your needs, who cares for you and for nothing is more important than your desire. Sometimes we forget that if we are compromising on our dreams then another person is also doing the same.
So stop worrying about all these things and enjoy the beautiful phase of your life.
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